I went out to an early dinner/late lunch and drinks with Mr Football tonight. It was interesting to see what would happen, I had no clue or real expectations. We basically came to the agreement that neither of us can live up to the others expectations. But we might see each other in the future.
I have to say it was kind of depressing, but he did say he would replace my 1 carat black diamond earring that I already lost and he work on getting me a gym membership. This helps, but it still makes me sad that things did not work out the way that they could have perhaps. I wonder what the future holds for us or anything at all?
After four drinks I’m not quite sure what it all means…
Gifts and material possessions are half the fun of being a sugar baby. However, one must remember material possessions can be taken away and it really hurts! Personal evolution and success, on the other hand, cannot be taken away. Be leery of the Sds who just buy you material possessions. They dress you up merely to parade you around. A true Sd will invest in your dreams and goals, not just your looks! Not many can pass this test, shallowness surrounds us in the sugar bowl and society!
Last night, I visited Local SD. The best way to describe our relationship/arrangement is comfortable. He bought me an array of fruit, champagne, and merlot for last night, merely because I asked and to make me happy. Lucky for me I always have a box of bendie straws in my car!
When there is no gray area in the “arrangement” it allows both parties to enjoy the sugar “relationship”. Spoiling each other with little things is a sure way to keep anyone happy and smiling!