“Do you have feelings for your sugar daddy?”
This is one of the most commonly asked questions I receive. And the answer is very difficult to encompass. Yes, of course, I enjoy their company, otherwise I would not spend time with them. Men who want a sugar baby are a dime a dozen, just as women who think their looks will get them everything they want effortlessly are endless. The key for me is finding someone I enjoy, spending time with them, and getting to know who they really are in their daily life.
My most rewarding sugar relationships are where I just get to be myself and I receive the same in return. The Certain One is the one who was the most open about who he truly was and we have spent the longest periods of time together. Getting myself to commit to a couple weeks or a month at a time with a location, let alone a person is normally a difficult task. However, with a few select people it does not feel suffocating like most commitments do.
So, yes I do have feelings for my sugar daddies. However, like any relationship trust and connection are something built together over time. Arrangements can be agreed upon, however relationships must grow. Sugar, in my world, requires being the multi dimensional people we truly are, not just a cookie cutter version of what people think others desire.