Different sugar babies are on different levels in life and sugar. Some even look at sugar as a means to an end, in which they seek to shallowly marry a man who is well to do. We all have different reasons for entering the sugar bowl.
At this point in my life and career, I do not want anyone in my life who makes me feel like a toy. There is no amount of money that can makeup for some disappointments. Sugar does mean taking disappointment in stride. However, when it becomes a pattern and when the money and gifts stop making up for time not spent together it is no longer a win win situation.
Independence provides options, and even some options money cannot buy!