When Tragedy is Reality-Las Vegas

This morning I woke up to text messages asking , “Are you okay?” On a Monday morning this is not the norm as it once would have been. As I woke up reality sunk in, there was a shooting at a country music festival held at Mandalay Bay last night. I enjoy this venue and am lucky to have not been there. This is one of those times in life where we ask ourselves, “Why?”

What is the reason behind all this madness?

What do you do when the madness is in your own backyard?

Is this a gun control problem or a people control problem?

Please comment with your thoughts.

Much Love




New Instagram @ZiFi_Writing

IG @ZiFi_Writing

I have finally given into social media! So, in my efforts to reach more people I have started a public Instagram. Ever wonder what my day looks like? Or what my random thoughts are? Or what my behind the scenes rambles are? Well here is your opportunity to witness my madness … I hope you enjoy the window into my life!



Let’s Call Him Bill-Alison Bailey


I had gotten really close to this guy I met a while back, let’s call him “Bill” lol.

Bill and I had met at a friends after work party. He was a very tall attractive mixed man with extremely beautiful eyes!

He asked for my number through my friend and from that moment we started to get close.

We would hang out a lot after work, a lot of nights we would go to the city and dance, and really just hang out! (He was one of those sweet take it slow guys)

He always brought me presents like flowers and cute stuff like that.

Well one day we were both a bit drunk. I was comped a free room at the local casino in New Orleans

( side note, you don’t have to play but like once every so often and they send you free rooms! You should definitely check it out)

Anyways back to my story! Instead of him catching an uber all the way back to his apartment on the north shore, I invited him to come stay with me at the hotel.

Honestly I wasn’t expecting much from him, I really thought we were going to just go back and sleep, because I was pretty exhausted.

Well we had parked my car in a public parking in a pretty sketchy part of town, and I didn’t want to leave it there, so we drove it back to the hotel where it’s a secured parking garage.

As I drive in going further and further up the ramps I noticed it was a full night at the casino that night. The only spot available was at the very top of the garage.

So I pulled into a space and started to get out of the car.

Now I mentioned earlier that bill was a bit drunk and it was in that moment that I found out bill doesn’t have as gentlemen as a side when he’d drunk like he does when he’s sober.

I clicked the lock on the car, as we got out, and as I started waking to the stairway I felt a hand grab my arm and swing me around.

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Signing out



As Summer Comes To An End


Fall nears and I wonder what all will happen during the busy season before year-end. Moving to a different house in Las Vegas this month has been a cramp in my style. Plus, I am experiencing extreme burn out after writing and publishing two books this past year. So, the logical step is to take a step back, relax, and fine tune everything before I go forward.

Oregon bound in a couple of days for some responsibilities. It is like a working vacation mixed with some family. I am excited to eat the amazing food in Oregon. I miss the farm fresh restaurants and how many vegan and gluten-free options they have available.

I wish I had more to update y’all on, but searching for houses has really made me question how some people live? The struggle of first world problems has been extremely intense.



Folly My New Public Instagram!


ZiFi-Personal Aug 2017


Many people have been asking and assuming my role in the adult industry recently. I attended an awards show this past week and I had to catch people up greatly. So, let me go ahead and clarify for those of you readers who are both old and new!

  • 2010 I started the blog as a way to understand the madness I saw working in strip clubs as a dancer.
  • 2013 I started the magazine column, “Strip Club Journals Unbound”, which was syndicated.
  • 2014 I retired from Stripping.
  • 2016  I took a break from monthly magazine deadlines to write books(but still write for magazines occasionally).
  • 2016 My first book was released, “So You Got New Boobs Now What“.
  • 2017 My second book was released, “A Decade On a Pole.“.

The past few years have been filled with writing, traveling, and conventions. However, just because I have taken a break from the public eye does not mean I have not been manifesting. I hope you all have been well and I get to meet more of you at upcoming conventions and events!




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