Last night were the Xrco Awards at the Ohm Nightclub in Hollywood. These events and conventions are starting to feel similar to extended family holiday gatherings. The dynamics vary, but the guarantee of excitement mixed with alcohol and booming voices are always present. The adult industry is like a family and shows love to most everyone, but yet competition within the industry is encouraged. It is human nature to want to be appreciated for your career. These award shows allow for these magical moments to unravel.
The Xrco Awards are a great memory and experience to have been blessed with!
The ED Awards(Exotic Dancer Awards) are held annually at the Gentlemen’s Club Owner’s Expo in August. These awards vary in category from Club Favorite Feature Dancer to DJ of The Year. Voting determines the winners and the nominations have started like wild fire.
Be apart of the madness and vote today … There are only five days left to take part in the preliminary nominations!
As of the new year my preparations for the AVN Expo 2016 began. Most of us in the adult entertainment industry fill out our applications for passes months in advance. However, the Real planning does not start till the magic email arrives allowing access to all the places people really want to be within the AVN Expo/Awards.
Most people spend January starting their new year, however in the adult entertainment industry February is when our year really starts. We are in full force career mode while the rest of the world sits back with their New Year’s resolutions and begins planing for Valentine’s Day. The last thing on our minds is romance and quality time with our loved ones. Weekends and Holidays off are not a luxury the best of the best will ever most likely experience in the adult entertainment industry, unless they already put in their time traveling the nation and the world to win awards and gain followers and fans. Success equates to traveling in the adult entertainment industry. It is a necessary evil after a while, but to be the best of the best there are always sacrifices to be made.
“Even though I was in a serious relationship at one point in my life my job ensured I was never home to celebrate it.” ~ Miss Nude Canada(@JusticeofVan)
“The only relationship that’s worked since I’ve been in the industry is the one I have with myself.” ~ Cali Rose(@CaliRosexoxo)
In January every year the best of the best of the adult film industry gather to network and socialize by design in Las Vegas, Nevada. In 1984 the AVN Awards started and now over thirty years later they are an event attracting people worldwide. Often the AVN Awards are referred to as the “Oscars of porn”. Connecting with the people who will aid in setting the tone for our careers for 2016 has to happen in less than 72 hours. Can you even imagine the intense pressure and excitement?
AVNs 2015 was my first year attending as press. I went with no real expectation other than a fun trip to my home away from home and one good magazine column. Opportunities just magically presented themselves as if by design. Therefore, jumping in the deep end last year paid off greatly.
“It(the adult entertainment industry) opens doors no other industry can.” ~Dominic DiLorenzo(@WEARE321LLC & @FlyntDominic)
Enrique Arellano(@EAFLOWS), host of Adventures Of The Mayor, was an amazing find last year at the 2015 AVN Expo. Enrique and I teamed up in order to cover more ground. Nothing is more exciting and confusing at the same time as multiple large hotel conference rooms filled with colorful porn stars, webcam models, adult toys, and much more. Our two styles and platforms mixed well, allowing us to interview as many fancy people as time and space allowed.
So many bucket list experiences and firsts were a bit overwhelming, but great fun meeting new people and working at the same time. Demon Seed Radio(@demonseed69) pulled both Enrique and I out of the crowds to interview at their booth at AVN Expo live. The host had read my blog(www.StripClubJournals.com) and also heard Enrique’s radio show(www.TheMayorsClub.com). The adult entertainment industry is a small world, especially at the AVNs. Interacting with people who are so known in a taboo industry is an extremely rare opportunity.
“I did not realize how big of a deal some of these up and comers really are globally, even at an infant stage of their careers.” ~Enrique Arellano(@EAFLOWS)
This year I know what to expect from the AVNs and what to prepare for, as much as one can prepare for the madness of an adult industry event/gathering. Realizing the residual effects of less than 72 hours on anyone’s career is exponential and thus overwhelming. Imagine the stress of being an adult actor or actress, let alone a nominee for an award, to make the most of these three days. After parties and networking are not merely perks, but career necessities in order to meet like-minded individuals in such a diverse industry with so many drastically different niches.
This year the Adult Webcam Awards(@AdultCamAwards) are being added into the mix. This will be the first year for this worldwide event and it is the same week as the AVN Awards/Expo in Las Vegas. What I will find there? I have no clue, but I do see the value in attending, because the internet is a powerful tool; even the adult film industry actors and actresses utilize the internet. So this may be the adult industry of the future and/or the here and now.
“I really enjoy the convenience of camming. All the money-none of the drama. I like that idea!… Web camming is the exotic dancing of the future.” ~Paige(@AthenaEterna)
As the January winter days go by faster and faster the whirlwind becomes almost a tornado of excitement, nerves, and logistics. January is a frenzy of artists in the adult entertainment industry making the most of the logistics of their career(we are mostly our own bosses). These logistics enable us to continue creating the life we live and love. Just because someone is known worldwide for being in a taboo industry does not make them a “bad person”. There really is no demographic to group us all together other than art and passion. We all see creating something as part of our purpose in life.
Whenever you can be surrounded by the best of the best of any industry there is something to be learned.
A special thank you to Bob Layton(@bobstudio83) for the clothing for the 2016 AVNs. Check out his store online http://www.Studio83exoticclubwear.com. Everyone needs a little help being fancy at times!
Cali Carter was a woman on a mission at the AVN Expo 2015. She was actively there everyday and working the Expo like a true professional should, in any industry. Obviously Cali has figured out: the more she turns on her shine and powers through the long hours at events/conventions like this, the more success she will encounter in her career in the adult industry. Thus, leading her to other opportunities that will allow her dreams to come true. Cali Carter is the kind of woman who will achieve success in whatever form she deems it(whether adult industry related or not).
Luck is preparation meeting opportunity and Cali Carter is definitely preparing for success and longevity in the industry.
After being at the AVN Expo and being surrounded by “my people” it has been a rough transition to come home to Portland and my everyday life. I missed my real life, but I loved the thrill of working again. After months of recovering and being a bum it felt amazing to be the career driven person I am at heart. Working smarter rather than harder is not always as easy as it may seem. It tests your patience beyond belief at moments. However, it is like chess: plan and play to win.
So now, I am back to my “Real Life” and I appreciate it beyond belief, because it allows me to remain grounded. I cannot lie I miss the thrill of living the adult industry lifestyle at times. Then I remember how amazing it is to have security and someone who wants and values having me around.
How the times change! From being loved by the masses to being truly loved by one. I like it!