Ivan of the Puba Network(@IamIvanxxx) introduced me to Arika Lane (@AkiraLane) who introduced me to Migliori personal lubricant. All this took place while enjoying the XRCO awards on the patio at Ohm nightclub in Hollywood, California. It is like living a domino effect in real-time. Every adult industry gathering provides for great networking opportunities.
Migliori products make me excited(pun intended).
Finally, a lube that addresses the fact women need to moisturize from the inside. I have searched for a lube with additional health benefits besides making bedroom fun more pleasurable. Over the years, I have found coconut oil to be the best lube and great for moisturizing with many other health/beauty benefits. However, the downside is coconut oil can cause holes in condoms or for them to completely break. This is a huge drawback to using coconut oil as lube and internal moisturizer, because no one wants to use a condom just to have it break and/or get a hole.
My lube research adventure begins. Wish me luck and please reach out to tell me how you decide what lube to use? What is your favorite brand? Why? What do you expect out of your lube?
Leasing a house in Las Vegas is ten times more difficult than anywhere I have ever lived. The property owners do not put in much effort in upkeep of the rental properties here for obvious reasons. However, some of these homes are worth $400k and up and they still do not maintain them well. Things like heat pumps break because the renter is responsible for the service fee for the warranty of the owner and the owner does not have them serviced between tenants. Thus making the owner able to blame shift onto another company because he is their customer, renters pay just for the service(we are not the actual customer to third-party business). Due to most landlords living out-of-state and owning multiple rental properties, they have businesses/people who maintain the properties for them. Thus, they have the ability to blame shift as they choose.
The catch of it all is most people hate moving. I would rather live in a maintained house and ocd clean it for the whole lease period so I feel like I have security and a home. Unfortunately, Xiaowei Xia(aka Winston Xia) has been one of those out-of-state landlords. Due to all the problems with maintenance and the condition of the property on move in I have to recommend everyone to stay very far away from Xiaowei Xia(aka Winston Xia) from California.
The biggest catch is the way he claimed his last tenant was a 18 year old stripper, when we very first viewed the house and there were cigarette or blunt ashes on the wet bar. Thank god he had no clue what I used to do otherwise he may have discriminated against me too! And the sad part is it is cheaper to move than it is to take your landlord to court so they have a corner on the market. This is what made me start writing: the irony of “fancy” people not being held accountable for their actions/responsibilities.
Beware Vegas! There are property owners and landlords out there like Winston Xia(aka Xiaowei Xia) and Liqun Jia.
The pictures used in this post are from April 2016 to now June 7th 2016.
Cali Carter has not changed over the past year besides a pair of DDs. She is the same down to earth beautiful person as she was last year. It is always nice to see women evolve through their career and use the industry to their advantage. Over the past year Cali has taken some time off from filming, but has some scenes which will be released soon. Cali Carter is still my favorite California Girl. She embodies the image she portrays very well and has a business mind about her. As well as being a real person enough to talk about her dog and/or going to the gym, Cali Carter is the nicest person ever in person. At the AEE fans will be bombarding her and she will carry on a conversation while talking to fans and posing for pictures at the same time.
If I had to pick one young woman who will be a super star in the adult film industry: It would be Cali Carter.
The past few months have been filled with travels, but unlike usual this time I was not just traveling: I was moving. This means I have had no home for this time period(40 days may seem short, but it felt like a whole separate lifetime). People tend to forget the stress of not having the security of a home, real meals, and sleeping in your own bed. Especially, when they are used to you traveling often. People take for granted what they do not know is sacred until it is taken away. I went from having three homes in two different states to homelessness, half by design and half by life lessons and poor choices. And to top it all off, finances had absolutely no part in the equation.
Finally this past weekend, I moved into my own condo in Vegas. This is the first time I have lived alone since I stripped in small town Oregon. It is extremely ironic, after I disappear for over a year to recover from stripping, people still expect the actions of a stripper out of me. In actuality it is the complete opposite. I just want to write and cook casseroles in my pajamas with my puppy at home. I worked for years in small town Oregon from 10pm-2am almost every night to get to where I am today. People do not see the hard work I have put in to be where I am today and often they take my efforts in vain and/or for granted. No I do not want to go out at night to get drunk and talk to people because that feels like stripping with my clothes on. Who wants to work for free?!? I drank mostly to forget stripping and make it the most profitable experience as possible. Why do people who live ordinary lives expect people in the adult industry to not have the desire or need for a little ordinary too?
“The ache for home lives in all of us, the safe place where we can go as we are and not be questioned.” ~Maya Angelou
Within my career in the adult industry and as a writer I have attended an array of events and places, but never in my life did I experience anything like the real estate conference in San Fransisco. In August I attended with Realty Edge: Tim Roh(aka Tae Roh), Michael O’Meara, Jennifer Diane, and a few others. Only two instances came to mind that I could apply here.
First, many years ago, in California with the Certain One when we went to go watch a football game across from Eddie Murphy’s house. A girl I met at the party told me that she lost her car one night in Sacramento while out drinking downtown with some girlfriends when introducing herself. I will give her the fact that it is easy to get lost in downtown Sacramento parking garages. However, her Father bought her a new car and she reported the car she lost stolen. Only a couple of months later to find the car in a parking garage when she was out downtown drinking with friends again. Now this was an introduction that took me aback, but let me know how to set the tone for our conversation and her mind-set. This reminded me of Jennifer Diane. In my opinion, if she was allowed the ability to be irresponsible and ditsy she would more so then I have witnessed.
Second, I did less touching of people at the AVN awards in Las Vegas in January than Jennifer Diane(aka Drunk Jenn) did at a real estate conference in SFO(even though I had to pose with fans and other entertainers for photos/media). Plus, this behavior was in front of her bosses and she is a married office worker. Never in my life did I think a woman who works in an office and is married to a teacher would have such a need for attention from men. Let alone act on it at a work function. Her husband is a school teacher and sporting coach. I wonder if he knows how she acts at work events? I would be concerned if I was him, but she is the bread-winner of her household. Maybe she gets to do as she pleases, they have an open relationship, and just put a front on like they are a happy Christian couple. I unfortunately never got the chance to meet her husband, but I sure would love him to know what she is really like when not supervised by him, even her bosses do not stop her.
The story continues as we went to the Houston versus Oakland game while in SFO, at the real estate conference. Drunk Jenn(aka Jennifer Diane) was at the height of her trip. Tequilla was her best friend and I am not sure if she even remembers who won the game? There was puking involved by near the end of the game and there were problems with her walking alone. Michael O’Meara being the nice guy who left his pregnant wife home. Let Drunk Jenn molest him a bit while he tried to get her on the Bart and back to the hotel. I am still unsure as to whose room she stayed in that night, but I am sure Michael O’Meara’s wife and Jennifer Diane’s husband would love to find out the truth. I know I would want to know and my roots are in the adult industry, not religion, corporate America and family.
The moral of the story is in the adult industry we have boundaries we are very aware of. Unfortunately, most women are not taught these boundaries and are repressed only to turn out like Drunk Jenns.