About three years ago I stopped blogging about my personal life. Before that my blog was filled with strip club and sugar experiences. However, then I dived into journalism and decided to keep my story to myself. In retrospect, this was probably one of the biggest mistakes I made in my writing career and branding Strip Club Journals. In keeping my story to myself and shutting out the outside world I shut out my readers and for this I apologize. I was not living in my truth for the sake of others. So here we are with a new beginning this fall and I intend to catch y’all up and let you have a little window into what my life is like now.
What is the last thing you remember reading?
Do you remember Mr. Utah?
Do you remember when I moved?
Did you know just Haywood and I drove to Vegas together to start our new life here?
Where should I start with my adventures into ordinary?
This was above my bed in my bedroom at my old house. This, the mold, the leaky water heater, the confrontational cheap landlord, and so many other things are why I decided to move. The landlord did try to sell the house to us for 400k, but it’s like buying a health hazard!
When there have been leaks in the past that were not fixed correctly, there will be mold. Where there are more leaks there will be even more mold.
This morning I woke up to text messages asking , “Are you okay?” On a Monday morning this is not the norm as it once would have been. As I woke up reality sunk in, there was a shooting at a country music festival held at Mandalay Bay last night. I enjoy this venue and am lucky to have not been there. This is one of those times in life where we ask ourselves, “Why?”
What is the reason behind all this madness?
What do you do when the madness is in your own backyard?
Is this a gun control problem or a people control problem?
Yesterday, I had the opportunity to meet Lynn Vega(@Lynnvegaxxx) on set of a girl-girl content shoot. She is a tiny little thing who entered the adult industry as a webcam model in 2013. With a BA in early childhood education the adult industry is not somewhere I would expect to find her.
At the 2015 AE Expo in Las Vegas, Lynn Vega was discovered. Out of the thousands of beautiful women walking the convention floors of the Hard Rock Hotel, she was picked out of the crowds by Girlfriend Films(@GF_Films) to do a girl-girl scene. The next month, Lynn Vega made her way to Los Angeles to do her first girl-girl scene and her entrance into the adult film industry was made. This is the most graceful entrance I have heard. Especially because after Lynn did her first scene she took a six month break from shooting to see if adult films were really for her.
Now two years later Lynn has established herself in the adult industry and continues to search for her niche. Although, she did mention how her Skype dates and custom videos keep her pretty busy. Lynn pushes the boundaries on being a virtual girlfriend. She had me blushing with her creativity and use of technology.
Check out her website and taste a little of what she has to offer.
On a Thursday afternoon I made my way to a girl-girl content shoot here in Las Vegas. Rarely do I get the luxury of interacting with the people I write about in person, days like this are the fun exceptions to the rule of my normal writing life. However unproductive and shocking it sounds, I get the best interviews when I go behind the scenes. Does it make my insides uncomfortable? Yes! However, it is not because I do not appreciate their art. They are just people and I do not want to sexualize them. My job is merely to report the facts. Clear boundaries in any career in the adult industry are a vital must. So I packed up my boundaries and computer and made my way to meet some amazing ladies.
Leya Falcon has been nominated for 2 Urban X awards this year: Best Female Website and Best Female Interracial Star. She is funny and confident with a side of sass. Not all people take pride in the work they create within the adult industry, but Leya is a ball of creativity(no pun intended).
Support your local artist and vote for Leyla Falcon.
Jayden Cole is a woman who is hard to keep up with, but she will be hosting the upcoming Exotic Dancer awards here in Las Vegas in August. Connect with her and keep up with her travels and adventures on Instagram @JaydenCole5.