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Acclimating #DesertDaze

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Acclimating to being in the desert again is amazingly weird. For the first time, here I am single and living alone in a new city with just my puppy. In two months my life has changed and turned upside-down. Where to go from here is the question plaguing me. What do I do for income besides write? Writing has yet to be profitable enough to keep up with my spending habits. Which is a tall order to fill with any one career. Thus, why I have always dabbled in a bit of everything.

The adult industry is amazing in this perspective, because there are so many small niches to be fulfilled. After taking over a year off from sugar and almost two years off from stripping, things are clearer than ever before. I know my own income is the only way I will be truly free of men. Men are fun to play with, but once I gave into sugar monogamy I gave up my power. Funny how that turned out… And how I did not know what was happening to me as it happened. I learned the lesson:  Never live above the means in which you can provide for yourself.

Now I am living within my means and within my power once again!

Happy Holidays! Xoxo

~Zi-Fi

@ZiFiStripClub

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Realty Edge’s Ultimatum

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Once the conservative realty firm Realty Edge of Clackamas, Oregon discovered one of its partners found his last girlfriend on SeekingArrangement.com. I was informed they gave him an ultimatum. If he continues to see her, then he will be pushed out of the company and not get compensated properly for his work over the past 5 years. Well, I wonder what they would have said if they found out he was gay?

They are conservative Republicans and cling to their glass houses, which is ironic due to them being in the real estate business. However, nothing has changed other than the ultimatum has made him want to keep her more. We always want what we are told we cannot have. Now I live in Vegas full-time and have freedom, in exchange for waiting for my back pay and keeping semi quiet about everything I know of their ill behavior and beliefs.

Well glass houses shatter. I hope the family members of Realty Edge’s employees are aware of how the people they are involved with and love act at work. If they gave one of the partners this ultimatum then it is very clear they wish to keep their actions hidden and their glass houses in tact. I wonder if they would mind if  he was a John?

They may have this issue because they have made him more of a fake than ever before!

Xoxo

ZiFi

@ZiFiStripClub

Drunk Jenn-Realty Edge Operations Manager Review

Within my career in the adult industry and as a writer I have attended an array of events and places, but never in my life did I experience anything like the real estate conference in San Fransisco. In August I attended with Realty Edge:  Tim Roh(aka Tae Roh), Michael O’Meara, Jennifer Diane, and a few others. Only two instances came to mind that I could apply here.

First, many years ago, in California with the Certain One when we went to go watch a football game across from Eddie Murphy’s house. A girl I met at the party told me that she lost her car one night in Sacramento while out drinking downtown with some girlfriends when introducing herself. I will give her the fact that it is easy to get lost in downtown Sacramento parking garages. However, her Father bought her a new car and she reported the car she lost stolen. Only a couple of months later to find the car in a parking garage when she was out downtown drinking with friends again. Now this was an introduction that took me aback, but let me know how to set the tone for our conversation and her mind-set. This reminded me of Jennifer Diane. In my opinion, if she was allowed the ability to be irresponsible and ditsy she would more so then I have witnessed.

Second, I did less touching of people at the AVN awards in Las Vegas in January than Jennifer Diane(aka Drunk Jenn) did at a real estate conference in SFO(even though I had to pose with fans and other entertainers for photos/media). Plus, this behavior was in front of her bosses and she is a married office worker. Never in my life did I think a woman who works in an office and is married to a teacher would have such a need for attention from men. Let alone act on it at a work function. Her husband is a school teacher and sporting coach. I wonder if he knows how she acts at work events? I would be concerned if I was him, but she is the bread-winner of her household. Maybe she gets to do as she pleases, they have an open relationship, and just put a front on like they are a happy Christian couple. I unfortunately never got the chance to meet her husband, but I sure would love him to know what she is really like when not supervised by him, even her bosses do not stop her.

The story continues as we went to the Houston versus Oakland game while in SFO, at the real estate conference. Drunk Jenn(aka Jennifer Diane) was at the height of her trip. Tequilla was her best friend and I am not sure if she even remembers who won the game? There was puking involved by near the end of the game and there were problems with her walking alone. Michael O’Meara being the nice guy who left his pregnant wife home. Let Drunk Jenn molest him a bit while he tried to get her on the Bart and back to the hotel. I am still unsure as to whose room she stayed in that night, but I am sure Michael O’Meara’s wife and Jennifer Diane’s husband would love to find out the truth. I know I would want to know and my roots are in the adult industry, not religion, corporate America and family.

The moral of the story is in the adult industry we have boundaries we are very aware of. Unfortunately, most women are not taught these boundaries and are repressed only to turn out like Drunk Jenns.

Xoxo

Zi-Fi

@ZiFiStripClub

PS. There are always some good eggs in the bunch.

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Freedom Comes With A Price Tag

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You Can Only Give So Much Before You Disappear!

Over the past year I have been very quiet about my own life. Being a sugar baby turned spoiled girlfriend in a monogamous relationship in Portland, Oregon was a huge transition. My long time readers know I have never given up my freedom to be with just one man in sugar before, let alone live with him. It always seemed very illogical to let one man have so much control over my life, until my feelings and heart got involved.

This someone got me a dog to keep me company in a city I was alone in besides knowing him. Little did I see that a dog made me stay longer and helped him isolate me. It was like a ploy to try to trap me into being a powerless mother and housewife to a controlling man. Joint bank accounts were involved as well as house work and folding underwear. This was no where near the life that I have been used to, but in the mirage of being sold a fantasy of a partner in life, security, family, and future in southern California. I kept trying in this relationship, so I would never look back with regret.

As of last week, I stopped trying anymore. With every compromise of my freedom I lost a piece of myself only to realize the pieces were so small and common that I almost forgot to stand up for myself and be the strong woman I am at heart. Never let a man intimidate you and always stand up for yourself, because no one else will. There will always be those someones out there that prey on women who allow their control to be taken away.

Take your control back and… Never let a powerful man intimidate you!

Xoxo

ZiFi

@ZifiStripClub

 

Strip Club Journals Unbound Sept-Adulted Nationwide

The VIP Exclusive Fashion Show(http://www.vip-exclusive.org) was held in Tampa, Florida on July 25th. This event was designed for the enjoyment of all by the owner: Terrance Shaw(@Vip_Exclusive). Terrance chose to incorporate all different styles of designers, models, and different types of entertainment than one would normally expect at the average fashion show. This added to the creativity and excitement of the event. Also, specifically the models themselves were of all types:  Short, Tall and Petite. The message Terrance delivered to the audience was, “Dreams can come True!” He started the show off with a very powerful quote by a designer from the VIP Exclusive Fashion Show in Tampa, David President, who has an enlightening story behind his line.

“Walk by faith not by sight.” ~David President.

U.S. Gold and Silver Inc.(http://www.usgoldandsilver.org) sponsored VIP Exclusive Fashion Show in Tampa. Joseph Rainier, CEO of U.S. Gold and Silver, attended the event as an active title sponsor and provided two rings to be awarded to the winners. He takes part in sponsoring events like these, “…to help charities and advance careers of models and designers.” The opportunities at the VIP Exclusive Fashion Shows are also there by design.

“We are known for connecting businesses and models with new opportunities at our events.” ~Terrance Shaw

Terrance Shaw’s willingness to work with a dynamic mixture of models and sponsors creates a melting pot of opportunities. If you are looking for an opportunity to grow and appreciate the beauty in the world, whether a model, designer, or sponsor contact VIP Exclusive Fashion(info@vip-exclusive.com). They hold fashion shows nationwide with upcoming fashion shows soon to be held in Virginia and New York.

The last thing I expected to see at VIP Exclusive Fashion Show in Tampa, Florida was an amazing pole dancer and singer duo. Jacqueline Valdez(@ElegantJacqueline) and Jason Rex began the fashion show setting the tone for the event. Jacqueline Valdez elegantly worked the pole and floor while Jason Rex, a power vocalist, expressed his passion and emotion through song. This dynamic duo was much unexpected. However, it did add to the buzz and excitement of VIP Exclusive Fashion Show, just as Terrance Shaw had anticipated and planned.

Jacqueline Valdez and Jason Rex combined their talents to create Infusion Remax(@InfusionRemax). They have much success to come in their near future with blossoming talent and career minds. Look for them to appear in Vegas soon. They are such a unique collaboration. The talent they have is powerfully raw, rare, and yet amazingly harnessed.

This was the beginning of my adventures for my September column of Strip Club Journals Unbound. I had thought this was going to be my jump into mainstream media. However once I arrived at the fashion show, after an extremely long airport day(DO NOT FLY @AmericanAir & @USAirways #MergerGoneWrong), I realized the need mainstream society has to resemble the adult industry to varying degrees, to which they deem to be acceptable. Everyone wants to feel special and/or fancy. The mainstream just has glamorous misconceptions of the adult/entertainment industry and the lives we actually lead and/or live.

These delusions were put quickly to rest when I traveled back to Oregon to cover the Vagina Beauty Pageant. Add the word vagina to an adult industry event and all of a sudden the glamour is completely taken away. Perhaps, that is how we adult industry people weed the mainstream from some events. Knowing that in doing so it will be a liberal freedom enhancing experience, rather than a shameful experience one must recover from.

Dick Hennessy(@DJDickHennessy) created The Vagina Beauty Pageant six years ago. The name of the pageant alone has given it a stigma that probably makes many national and international writers anxious to touch due to its nature and subject matter. However, this is exactly the kind of event I look for in the adult industry. “Controversy causes readership,” is my motto and going out of my own comfort zone makes me grow as an individual, so this was a win-win situation. I even had to go out of my own comfort zone for this one, a rarity with my own background in the adult industry.

“The fact that I get paid for one of my passions in life is amazing to me.” ~Noel(Eugene, Oregon)

The Vagina Beauty Pageant allowed me to reconnect with some of the strippers I met when I entered the adult industry in small town Oregon. Reconnecting with my roots also made me face just how liberal Oregon remains. The one thing I learned going to one preliminary round and the finale of the Vagina Beauty Pageant was that the first amendment gives women in Oregon strip clubs the right to insert things into themselves. This is a random fact that was burned into my eyes and soul to be remembered forever.

The adult industry never stops amazing me. Yes it is amazing to be a part of it all, but there will always be moments where the adult industry shocks everyone merely by design and nature.

Xoxo

ZiFi

@ZiFiStripClub

Special warm thank you to Embrace Beauty Magazine (@embracebeautym) for catching me with my notepad in hand and Kento Kawakami Photography (http://www.kentokawakami.com) for the photos from Vip Exclusive Fashion Show in Tampa and Infusion Remax.

Next month look forward to my first PANDA interview(http://www.pandamembers.org), catch up with Christian Desire of Magic Mike XXL(IG @MiamiModelo), and The Male Encounter Show(the group Channing Tatum performed with). Also, keep an eye/ear out for my radio segment #ZsAreTheFactsWithZiFi on Adventures of The Mayor(@EAFLOWS).

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